I'm sitting in the airport after a girls weekend in LA with my mom, sister, and my sister's good friend. It was a wonderful weekend, filled with food, sleep, and quality bonding time. We also went to Disneyland and Universal Studios, which I always enjoy because I believe you are never too old to play. [...]
Category: Musings
She Is Messy, But She’s Kind
I've been having a bit of a time lately. When I'm feeling wonky, my self-care regimen is truly put to the test, because my first instinct is to revert to not-so-healthy habits of relentless worrying and unproductive perfectionism. Not great. But I'm a work in progress. I'm asking for (and accepting) help from people that [...]
On The Radio
I am a passionate yet fickle lover of things. Halloween is my favorite holiday...until it's time for Christmas, and summer is the best season ever...until I see an adorable pair of suede knee-high boots. And sure enough, here we are in the middle of my alleged favorite season, and I'm already creating my fall bucket list. Spoiler: [...]
Blackberry Fields Forever
On Sunday, I went berry picking for the first time, with my mom and younger sister. We went to a farm down in Watsonville, about an hour north of Monterey. It's a sleepy city of cherry fields and vineyards and country roads, and we were surprised at how much fun we had, laughing together as [...]
Our Great Unfinished Symphony
We have to do with the past only as we can make it useful to the present and to the future. -Frederick Douglas, "What to the Slave is the Fourth of July?" I've often thought about the reasons we celebrate our independence on the day that we do. On July 4, 1776, The Revolution was just [...]
But Oh…Those Summer Nights!
Monday was the official first day of the summer. To which I say: WAHOOOOOOOO! Despite the fact that I'm a grown adult lady, I love summer as much as I did when I was six-years-old, drawing sidewalk chalk madterpieces. I love the sense of play that comes with warm weather and shorter skirts. I'll never [...]
Ode To Joy
On Saturday night, I attended the live show for my favorite podcast, The Read. The audience was black, opinionated, loud, joyful. Afros, Beyonce t-shirts, and bold lipstick abounded. It was surreal to share something I usually consume alone in my car with hundreds of other enthusiastic black people. It felt a little like church, complete with [...]
Love God Herself
"I had my ups and downs, but I always find the inner strength to cool myself off. I was served lemons, but I made lemonade." -Hattie White, grandmother of Sean "Jay-Z" Carter Y'all, black mamas are the Sugar Honey Iced Tea. They have faced four-hundred years of oppression and trauma, the tripled consciousness of being black and [...]
Non-Stop
Oh what a week it's been, y'all. In the past seven days I have acted in my first three shows for the Murder Mystery Company (in three different themes/scripts, I might add) and attended an open call for Hamilton: An American Musical. As I write this, I am between rehearsals for this week's MMC shows. This is [...]
Funemployment
Or: How I'm Learning To Stop Worrying And Love The Gig Economy